How to write amazing Personal Vows
Rev. Jay Bowman : Helping you make the moment totally You from start to finish.
Writing fun yet romantic personal thoughts/vows can infuse your wedding ceremony with personality and warmth. Here's how you can create such personal thoughts/vows:
*** Recall Special Moments: Begin by recalling some of the most memorable and fun moments you've shared as a couple. These could be quirky adventures, inside jokes, or even mishaps that brought you closer together.
*** Inject Humor: Incorporate humor into your vows by reminiscing about funny incidents or sharing playful promises. Consider poking gentle fun at each other in a loving way, but ensure that the humor is lighthearted and respectful.
*** Express Your Love: Balance the humor with heartfelt expressions of love. Share why your partner means so much to you, what you admire about them, and how they've enriched your life.
*** Use Creative Language: Get creative with your language to convey your affection in a unique and memorable way. You can include puns, references to shared interests or hobbies, or even quotes from favorite movies or books that hold special meaning for you as a couple.
*** Make Promises: Alongside the fun and romance, make meaningful promises to your partner. These could be promises to always make them laugh, support their dreams, or be their partner in all of life's adventures.
*** Acknowledge Your Future Together: Look ahead to your future together and express excitement for the journey that lies ahead. Share your hopes and dreams for your life together, both the silly and the serious.
*** Keep it Balanced: Strike a balance between the fun and romantic elements in your personal thoughts/vows. You want to make sure they reflect your relationship authentically while also honoring the solemnity of the occasion.
*** Consider Your Audience: Keep your audience in mind when writing your vows. While you want them to be fun and light-hearted, ensure they're appropriate for all ages and sensitivities of your guests.
*** Practice Delivery: Practice delivering your personal thoughts/vows with the right tone and timing. This will help ensure that your words land just as you intend them to and that you maintain the right balance between fun and romance.
*** Be True to Yourselves: Ultimately, let your personalities shine through in your personal thoughts/vows. Be true to yourselves as a couple, and your words will resonate deeply with both you and your guests.
It’s very common for couples to share some prepared ‘personal thoughts/vows’ as well as formal vows in a ‘repeat after me’ format. Bottom line: You don’t get this moment back so make sure ‘you do you’…..and then treasure it the rest of your life.
